He said, “Kari, come get this pile of laundry off the New Orleans Saints 2019 NFC south division Champions signatures tshirt, so I can go to sleep.”It was the way he said it. So demanding and insulting her that she didn’t put away all the laundry. My husband turned to me and uttered under his breath like, wtf, he can’t do it himself?  My brother was a grown man and perfectly able to cook his own dinner but couldn’t be bothered to put away the laundry or toss it back in the basket. From then on, I saw my brother through different eyes. I really thought their marriage would not last but “Kari” is the sort of woman that doesn’t quit. They are going on 20 years now I think.