I accepted that he was not going to give me the money and took it out of my 401K and took the Kyle Busch 2019 monster energy nascar cup series Champions tshirt. The next month I get an email from several siblings letting me know that he called all of them wanting them to know what and how he handled the situation. They all told him he was wrong and he not only should have given me the money but should have paid for the trip fully and given me spending money. He told my oldest sister that what I asked for was pocket change. To this day he blames me that the family doesn’t like his decision. He will not speak to me at all! Oh well! My mom use to say he is a weekend Christian.