In my family the Christmas Holiday season is Goku I’ll do it Tomorrow shirt. Such as where we are celebrating and picking a date. One year we decided that children who were still in school received gifts. High school usually received gift cards and adults did not receive a gift Now that our parents have passed we generally stay at home with our immediate family and then the extended family gets together on a date when the most people can attend. As our families enlarge they will probably drift farther away. The grandkids are now adults and not too many more years will probably start families of their own. This is grotesque, but you asked, so here we go.